Gone are the days when women were the only folks that used sex toys. The male sex toy industry is also booming and developing at the same rate as women. To sum it up, we can say that the 2010s have probably been the most fun time for single males all over the world. With so many companies solely pursuing male sex toys, we can pretty much guarantee that there are only good things to come to the way of us men.
However, not everyone is a fan of sex toys. Some of your guys out there might still not know much about them, while some of you might even frown every time someone says the name ‘sex toys’. It doesn’t matter whether you belong to the former category of lads or the latter; this guide is here to help you out. We’re going to go over the basic types of sex toys and once you’re a bit more well-versed with what the options out there and know what each option is supposed to do, we’re going to give you a sort of an instruction manual that is going to assist you when it comes to actually purchasing a toy. So, without wasting your time, let’s get right into it.
Types of Toys
Like we said, the male sex toy industry is pretty diversified and that diversification means that there are going to be a lot of types of these toys – And there are. When you search up categories of male sex toys on the internet, you’re going to find a ton of them. But in order to keep things brief, we’re going to go over some of the most popular types out there. This will definitely help you understand which sex toy is meant for you.
Fleshlights, or more formally referred to as male masturbators, are probably the bread and butter of male sex toys. Fleshlights are the simplest sex toy out there but they’re probably also the best. These fleshlights consists of a hollow chambered device that is meant to mimic a certain part of a females body. Usually, that part is the vagina, but you can find fleshlights for mouth and butt too so you can fulfill all your kinky fetishes. An example is the Asa Akira fleshlight.
Fleshlights also come in anal, an example is the Eva Lovia fleshlight:
The thing that makes male masturbators popular is that they’re meant to perfectly mimic a lady’s body part. What we mean is that if you purchase a vaginal fleshlight, you’ll get a product that comes equipped with the whole outer lips and the inside will have some soft sensitive material that’ll make it virtually impossible for you to differentiate between this sex toy and a real vagina. So, if realistic sex is what you’re looking for, then male masturbators are probably the best thing you can spend your money on. Check out my guide to the best male masturbator.
Cock rings would probably be better suited in the ‘enhancer’ category we’re going to discuss a bit later, but we feel that they deserve their own category. Basically, cock rings are meant to restrict the blood flow to your penis. You might be wondering, “Why the hell would someone want to do that?” Well, the answer is that there is a pretty interesting feeling when you’re masturbating with minimal blood flowing to your penis. First ‘feeling’ is that it’s a lot harder to orgasm. You’ll be able to last longer in bed. Talking about things being harder, you will also be rock solid during sex. This is particularly helpful for men suffering from medical conditions like erectile dysfunctions (caution though, do not mistake this for a medical prescriptions. We are no doctors). Finally, limited blood flow will also help you with a longer erection. Long story short, it can make you much better in bed even when you just absolutely suck. They’re sort of the opposite of cock cages like the Holy Trainer. Comprende?
Sex dolls are meant to branch the distance between sex toys and actual women. Smaller sex dolls are just part of a female’s body molded into pleasurable objects. However, if you’re willing to spend the big bucks, you can find full body dolls with picture perfect bodies and (surprisingly) pretty faces. However, we’d like to issue a couple of warnings. The first is that sex dolls can be expensive. If you get addicted to them, you could possibly have the urge to drop more than a thousand dollars on these. There’s no point in having an expensive doll if you’re going to be living in a box, now is there?
Second word of warning is purely psychological. Like we said, sex dolls are meant to have amazing bodies that you might not find in real life. So, once you acknowledge the fact that you can’t a woman with those amazing curves, you might just not want to go back to women at all. This scenario might seem funny, but trust us, every obsessive guy using sex dolls thinks the same.
Prostate massagers are more on the taboo side of male sex toys. They’re meant to go in the butt, so not every guy is comfortable to use them. But, they’re still amazing sex toys. The prostate is a walnut-shaped object located about three inches in your anus. The thing about the prostate is that massaging this organ can actually make you orgasm and the intensity of a prostate-stimulated orgasm is much more than a regular penis orgasm. That’s what makes prostate massagers special. If you’ve been using regular sex toys and have started getting bored of them, then a prostate massager should be on your wish list. An example of a prostate massager is the Lelo Hugo.
This category of sex toys are meant for men that have ‘physical flaws’. These flaws could be stuff like short penises, trouble getting erections and not lasting long enough. Enhancers also have several different categories. There are penis extenders that are meant for short penises, dildos with rabbit vibrators to stimulate the clit of the lady, penis pumps to lengthen your erection and finally strap ons for some double dick action.
Features to Look for
Look for the Right Materials
There’s no ‘right’ material out there. All sex toy materials are purely based on what you like to see in your sex toys. If you’re more into flexible and soft stuff, then you can use silicone. Silicone sex toys are the highest quality of sex toys out there and they’re quite pricey too. Then, if you’re looking for something more firm, then glass, plastic or metal sex toys are a good option too. However, make sure that the stuff you’re buying is non-porous and phthalates-free so there are no health issues because of them.
Think About Your Budget
If you’re just spending a little bit on your sex toys, then simple c-rings or fleshlights should be enough. But, if you’re really willing to go all out and spend the big bucks, then go for prostate toys and in some cases, even costly sex dolls.
Determine the Size of the Toy
It doesn’t matter whether you’re buying a toy for your ass or your penis; the right size is everything. Basically, if it’s a penis toy, you can’t have a toy too small otherwise it won’t fit, or a toy too big or it’ll be useless. Measure your junk before you buy a toy.
If you’re buying something for your anus, stick to small sizes. Intermediate users don’t have the capability to deal with huge dildos up their butts. If you’re one of them, stick to just 2-3 inch long massagers and dildos.
Best Male Sex Toys
Flight by Fleshlight Male
Flight is by far, one of the most popular sex toys ever made on planet Earth. It’s that simple. This bad boy is a fleshlight by definition, but it’s one of the best ones ever made and there are a lot of reasons for that. It’s one of the most popular fleshlights along with the Stoya Destroya fleshlight.
The first thing you will probably notice about this toy is that it’s exterior is highly discreet. It’s meant to keep your privacy secured and the exterior won’t reveal to anyone that this device is a sex toy. With the cap on, it looks more like a thermos or something. The exterior is decent and the interior is also equally spectacular. The whole texture is pretty unique and it’s so different from what you see in most fleshlights. It isn’t just 2 or 3 chambers with the same design just rotated at different angles. Moreover, the toy uses SuperSkin material which is the closest material to an actual vagina. Another great feature of the toy is the suction cup on the bottom. Twist that cup and just enjoy as your penis gets sucked into that beautiful fake vagina. Some examples of high tech male masturbators are the Lovense Max and the Hot Octopuss Pulse.
- TAKE ON THE GO | Masturbation orifice made from patented, Real-Feel SuperSkin which is an extremely life-like material that precisely mimics intercourse. The flight is the perfect travel ‘companion’.
- IMPROVE | Fleshlight men’s sex sleeve toys can be used for both pleasure and to increase sexual performance and stamina.
- STIMULATING INNER TEXTURE | The Pilot sensation is turbulently pleasurable, incorporating a number of textures (bumps, fingers, ribs) and canal width changes that will have you flying to new heights.
- STRONG SUCTION | Tighten and Loosen the Special End-cap to Control Suction for Added Realism. Try a Fleshlight Sleeve Warmer to take it to the Next Level! Way more discreet than a full sex doll.
- TRAVEL READY STAMINA TRAINER| Practice makes perfect, especially in the bedroom. This is the perfect men’s sex tool. The Stamina Training Unit was specifically designed to replicate the intense sensations of intercourse, which can help users increase sexual stamina, improve performance and techniques, and heighten and intensify orgasms.
Aneros Progasm is a bit of an older product that the public just doesn’t seem to stop loving, just like the Aneros Vice. Everything about this toy is just spectacular. The first notable feature is obviously going to be the size. This prostate massager is huge; it’s the largest massager that the company has to offer. But, there’s a rounded tip that prevents the toy from feeling like a blunt instrument. The bulbous shape of the toy is meant to give you a taste of its true power as you slowly insert it.
Apart from the massager itself, there is a perineum and kundalini tab too. The sensations from these tabs aren’t too game-changing, but they’re still a decent detail to have. Plus they have another job too. They stop the toy from slipping deep inside to the point of no recovery. The last thing to mention about the Progasm is its material. It wouldn’t be on our list if it wasn’t body-safe. But, not only is it body-safe, it’s the highest quality of medical grade silicone available to regular consumers. So, if you’re purchasing an Aneros Progasm, there are things to be concerned of, but health issues are not one of them.
- Ergonomically designed Aneros prostate massager for out-of-this-world P-spot stimulation
- Rounded, bulbous, angled tip for easy insertion and precise stimulation
- Anchor base stops unwanted travel and offers scintillating external stimulation
- P-tab massages perineum to enhance overall pleasure
- K-tab stimulates Kundalini spot for all-encompassing arousal
The We-Vibe Pivot is a penis ring, but it isn’t just a penis ring. It’s one of the most technologically advanced cock ring ever made. In simple words, it has a vibrator. And, you can probably guess why it’s on this list, cock ring and a vibrator, now that’s a combination hard to resist.
Technically, cock rings are supposed to make you last longer, but this one will actually make you cum faster. However, that’s not necessarily a bad thing since the orgasm will be more explosive than any you’ve ever had. The best part is that if you’re wearing this toy in couple’s play, the clit vibrator on this toy will help out your female friend too. So, if it can make both partners cum quicker, no one’s going to be complaining, now are they?
Just like any other We-Vibe toy, the Pivot can be controlled by a remote control as well as a mobile app called We-Connect. The app for the toy is pretty well made. It has a long list of intensities and vibration settings include the option to create custom patterns. Rest assured, this toy has the capability to keep you busy for a long, long time.
- Provides comfort and stability allowing for a variety on positions during sex.
- Soft and stretchy, it’s comfortable to wear and provides hands-free clitoral stimulation with powerful rumbly vibrations that you can both enjoy.
- Play and share control from anywhere in the world with the free We-Connect app. Dimensions:31 mm x 71 mm
- Rechargeable, adjustable, waterproof, low power alert, body-safe, app-ready
Auburn from Silicon Wives
Auburn is the prettiest, sexiest and the most perfect sex doll ever made; plain and simple. The doll is a redhead and has looks that will make you dump your girlfriend, seriously. She also has blue glistening eyes to complement those stunning looks.
The doll is made of TPE, which might raise a few eyebrows since regular TPE is porous and isn’t body safe at all. However, Auburn is platinum-cured, which means that she isn’t porous and is completely body and skin-safe. The doll also has a steel skeleton that takes out that insane amount of flex and makes her seem more like real human being. Auburn is pretty petite. She’s 5 feet long with a weight of 62 pounds, so if you dig small chicks, then Auburn is the toy you should get.
- B-Cup TPE Sex Doll
- 5 feet 2 inches tall (157 cm)
- Vaginal, Anal, and Oral sex is possible
- Steel Skeleton with movable joints